A bond of intimacy, free from HIV
“I thought I could never be happy again,” said Mei Zi, who is living with HIV and a mother of a lively young boy. She calls her son “calm angel”, as he doesn’t talk much. Mei Zi says that “calm angel” as a gift from God.
Mei Zi met her husband two years after she discovered that she was living with HIV. After their wedding, she went to live with her husband in Beijing, China, where he worked. She remembers receiving a red down jacket as a present from her husband when she got off the train in Beijing. The excitement is still fresh, even though it was a long time ago.
Soon after her marriage, Mei Zi became pregnant. Although her doctor advised her that she could take medicine to ensure that her baby was born free from HIV, she made the painful decision to terminate the pregnancy. She and her husband were both living with HIV and, in addition, she was living with hepatitis C.
Mei Zi put having children out of her mind, but five years later a test showed that she was pregnant.
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